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surprise! - further steps

Yesterday I did my sixt session. Mostly I practice every fourth day so that there are 3 full days between a session. Often this fails because I have no time or aren't in the mood. So I had two weeks of abstinence between my last two sessions.

And I experienced the benefits of that! What this was I will describe a few lines later.

The first (right done) Aneros session I did, I experienced a Super-T (wrote a blog entry to that). All other sessions were similar, because I always ended up with a Super-T. The quality of the first Super-T was the best and reaching Super-T’s all the time began to bore me.
But yesterday I broke the wall of Super T's and gained a new level ;)
Instead of lying on the stomach or back, I spontaneous decided to do something new and chose the position lying on the side with the upper knee bent.
The second big difference to the other sessions was the technique. I didn't produced hard contractions, but tried to hold gentle sqeezes with light differences in strenght. After a while I contracted the muscles in a way, that caused little shavings. This was a the first sign of very small involuntaries and time by time I got better in holding the right sort of contraction for causing more of these involuntaries.
You have to play with the different muscles you have in the pelvic floor and need to level the magnitude of tension. The involuntaries were very slightly and disappeared when I relaxed all muscels, so it was not this strong kind of involuntaries, described by other members. But it was a beginning.

I definitely belonged to the persons who felt unable to have these involuntaries for a long time!

I just can give you the advice of being very aroused and hold slightly contractions for causing them. Capturing a nice erotic thought in the right moment will suddenly swell your prostate and cause these involuntaries. It’s a combination of muscle play and mind. The "strong arousal" and "light contractions" are the key words here.
With the time I came nearer to the PONR, but my arousal was so strong, I thought I would explode when reaching it. My pelvic floor began to twitch sometimes as it’s when a normal orgasm is starting and the sperm is throwing out. But for some reason, the penile orgasm didn't start. Instead of that, a wave of pleasure started to flow my body. Very intense and orgasmic. It was about a few seconds.
Few moments after that my pelvic floor squeezed a few times which triggered a normal penile orgasm.
I would call this a dry-O, maybe a small one.
What makes me very happy about this session, is that I experienced the involuntaries and finally a new kind of orgasm. A bit of practice, strong arousal and the new technique (slight squeezes) brought me there.
A little thought I want to add is the following:
I read several times anal orgasms and penile orgasms would be like the ends of two different roads. The feeling of them is different but they are very close to each other. I were 0,001 % away from getting a normal ejaculation still the Dry-O occured. It’s a heavy thing to handle the feelings.
However, every experience is different! For me, the normal orgasms and the anal orgasms are near by.

Two problems I had was still the urge to urinate after some time and also so indirect stimulation of the penis, through lying on the bed. Will work on that and post my solutions here ;)

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first success - Super T without hands

I tried several toys in the past with low success but also low engagement. My experiences weren't very good and that's why I want to reassure people with this blog.

Problems I had:
- don't feeling much, when the toy is inserted.
- Unability of deep relaxation
- bad conscience
- don't taking enough time

Despite these problems I achieved my first success yesterday. Although not everything was perfect!
I have to admit, that I'm not the guy who falls in deep relaxation and trance. I also cannot make myself free of all expectations, because that would be "self-lieing". The only thing I’m doing this is intensify my sexual life and of course I have expectations at the toy!
Despite this two things which are very prejudicial for success, I achieved a Super-T. So keep calm and don't think everything has to be perfect for having success ;)

Differences I noticed to normal orgasms:
-no penile located feelings
-more intense
-another sort of arousal which is hidden by normal penetration
- 3 times long as normal orgasm
- light shivering at the whole body after session
- aftermath of that feelings till the next day

Another thing which was in a different way from most of the "how to's" is that I build my rectal arousal by pulling the toy as deep as possible into my rectum (of course all without any hand-use).
However, it took it's time but I felt anal arousal. I really felt another kind of arousal in my body which could be discovered. It's not that easy to maximize this feelings because body and mind have to work together, which is the main contrast to normal penetration.

Things I did to prepare the session:
- shaving my whole geniteral area (from the abdomen over the perineum and the ass)
- washing my rectum with an "anal-douche"
- getting aroused through porn
- taking all important tools together: towel, tissues, lube, the toy, small mirror
- preparing my phone to play the "Hypnaerosession" (that’s was good, because only the power of my mind hadn’t reached

problems I had in the session:
- repeating urge to urinate
- drying lube
- no ability to really relax because I'm a stressed guy ;)

Finding the prostate was a big problem for me. I had the impression there must be a point (like a small button) where to push, which causes the feelings. But that's not the case. Now I have the opinion it has to be "awaked" for causing feelings at all. Many people may do not need this awakening because their prostate is already sensitive enough.
For those who aren't I have these tips:
- forget the imagination that it's like pushing a button
- maybe try to locate it with your thumb (lying on the stomach) by masturbating. !Short before! ejaculating it will buldge and then you have it.
- do several sessions with the toy, even if you don't feel much! After a few *real sessions you will notice something.

*take the time and consider all advice in the Wiki and so on!

If you have any advice for me, please put it in the comments, I'm thankful for it ! ;) This entrys will not contain any esoteric techniques and I want to describe all as clear as possible.

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