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Messages to self

You are convinced excessive stimulation of nipples and / or arse leads men into another dimension of orgasm experience, whereas excessive cock stimulation always ends in ejaculation, stimulation of nipples and / or arse can side step the termination of pleasure caused by ejaculation and instead let you expand into further dimensions of pleasure.

You feel deeply masculine and happy to be a man, but you've integrated your feminine side and your body is beginning to show you, you can make love to yourself, you look at other guys initially for what you would want in your twin lover, perhaps, youth, maturity, a bigger dick, a better body - you seek the ideal 'you' to have as your lover, but now perhaps you are seeing that it is more about wanting to experience the constant pleasure other guys seem to be capable of, not actually wanting the guy.

Your key references:
"The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia

"Prometheus Rising" by Robert Wilson

"Undoing Yourself with Energized Meditation and Other Devices" by Christopher Hyatt

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Problems of (Non)Ejaculation

Just using the blog as a thought sketchbook to work some ideas through here :)

Executive Summary
Ejaculation has nothing to do with the breadth and depth of the orgasms you seek to experience, other than ejaculation being the emergency stop button to avoid you reaching them unwittingly, the misunderstanding and mythology surrounding this barrier is akin to that which once surrounded the 'sound barrier' until it was actually exceeded and experienced by humans.

A little background on me - I rarely ejaculate, perhaps once every week, every two weeks, if that sometimes - it just drains me of energy and lowers my immune system if I do it more these days. I'm approaching 50, I never was a big cummer, I can count the days when I ejaculated twice on my hands. I know some guys will relate to this, others will find it strange - in the past I have chatted to guys who of a similar age were ejaculating up to 12 times a day - there is indeed a wide spectrum of ejaculation rates across humanity, analogous perhaps to the documented eightfold difference in stomach size.

However, I am very much aware that if you are not exercising the prostate through ejaculation, you should be open to (exercising it) massaging it through other means on a daily basis if possible.

Anyway over the years I've been confused by what ejaculation gives - you know the sensations when you reach a point of no return with stimulation and nothing is going to stop you ejaculating - ok there's the mechanical muscle relief of all that tension just exploding, which feels fulfilling and wonderful, but means it's all over, at least for a while, (may be you are one of those lucky guys who can cum a lot), but also if the stimulation has been slow and you've been rock hard for a while (let's say over half an hour) you also get some all over body feelings of euphoria and a sense of blissful glowing that might continue for quite a long while afterwards.

So culturally the orgasm for men is a mix (and for most primarily) the prostate tension release and semen explosion, but also sometimes together with this sense of bliss which is possibly experienced beyond the cock and balls.

Those of us on the aneros journey at various stages are realising to various degrees that the second sensation is the part which can be expanded into a depth and breadth of orgasm which is much more energetic and to put if mildly (fucking amazing) and can become multiple and / or continuous and bears no relationship to ejaculation.

But I still like being hard and the accompanying sensations and certainly those generated very near to the point of no return, so I've been playing with the mimicking of ejaculation to prolong and deepen this experience.

Experiment - Mimicry of Ejaculation as a Portal into Non-Ejaculatory Orgasmic Activity

Get as near as you can to ejaculating, but ensure you stop a good way before the inevitable and hold your cock near the base and pulse the muscles at the root of your cock as if you are ejaculating - you'll know when you've got the right set of muscles, because it really will feel like you are ejaculating and your cock will become much thicker and certainly the glans / head will significantly swell. The feeling that you were near to ejaculation will also dissipate and possibly ignite areas around prostate and anus which the aneros usually stimulates into the attention of your sensorium. You will probably also experience loss of pre-cum sometimes in surprising quantities. Keep cycling through the sequence of getting close, then holding the cock base and mimicking ejaculation, allowing the dissipation of the feeling of the need to ejaculate and again starting up stimulation towards it - for me after about 4 of these cycles I'm just incredibly hard, blissed out and not particularly craving to ejaculate anymore, just awash in orgasmic feelings - next I'm going to try inserting the aneros, up until now I have kept these two activities separate, not wanting to relate aneros pleasurings with the cock focussed stimulation I have used to bring on ejaculation.

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A New Decade

At the start of a new decade I find myself wavering between two extremes to understand the Aneros Effect (1). Is but a catalyst, eventually this phenomenon of increasing / developing levels of body / mind bliss becomes self-sustaining without the catalyst - which begs the question what exactly is happening - is the prostate and the complexity of nerve endings once massaged by Aneros appropriately or eventually a learned set of subtle muscle contractions (analogous to riding a bike, kind of muscle memory auto-take over) doing the equivalent of sticking probes in the brain at the appropriate location and feeling you've encountered Universal mind - the prostate being in Artform's sense some kind of centre to a second brain and the probe being literally the Aneros. This is the perspective of a kind of pragmatic biology explanation.
(2). Is the Aneros a technological amplifier, a tuner in for the human being to a Universally accessible continuous orgasmic / bliss energy frequency and represents some kind of physic breakthrough for everyone on the planet?

Perhaps best just to go on the journey :)

So Artform suggested blogging about my experience of combining attempts to "click amygdalae forward" and usage of Aneros (focussed at present on use of Peridise advanced set, just ordered Eupho). This started on early morning of 30th December 2009 - along with the combination two other factors may have been playing a part here - approaching full moon and having a soup at lunchtime with corriander (Tiphereth tip on increasing libido here - - ingestion of a few corriander seeds I have felt in the past amplifies orgasmic activity).

I woke around 1.00am, had a pee and returning to bed inserted the bigger of the advanced Peridise set (I don't use any lube just give it a lick before insertion), lay on my right side and got the familiar pleasant buzzing sensations internally around anal canal and prostate and moving in waves a bit up the spine and down back of legs. As this was happening I began to visualise swirling motion at the front of my amygdalae (not exactly the feather brushing as described at the end of this article here - More the notion of little whirlpools of teasing simultaneously at the front of each amygdala. I didn't find it easy to do both at once, but that seems to be the most effective in amplifying the next stage. This concentration and visualisation lead to increased ripples of energy across my body giving mild involuntary abs muscle contractions (not the full blown body convulsing which some report).What took me by surprise and caused the - "oh fuck this is wonderful" - response was what was happening in my head.

A sense of my head orgasming and feelings of absolute bliss and with further visualisation of tickling the amygdalae with the small whirlpools of energy and "pushing" the energy forward into my frontal brain lobes these sensations increased - after about 15 minutes I extracted Peridise and dozed off to sleep.

Woke again about 4.00am, inserted smaller of Peridise advanced set and again laying on right side visualised tickling whirlpools at front of amygdalae, whirlpool going clockwise for right amygdala and anti-clockwise for left amygdala, even more blissful. 20 minutes later extract Peridise and fall back to sleep.

What was really great was waking at 6.30am stretching and instantly erecting with spontaneous orgasmic energy surging over my entire body, no stimulation anywhere just instant bliss - what a lovely way to greet the new day.

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