Ehm's Os

  • Patience

    Your ability to withstand delayed gratification correlates well with success, it's also been seminal in our evolution and the development of the frontal cortex.
    There are some people on this forum with addiction problems, be it PMO or marijuana. Both cases the outcome is inevitable a decline in sensitivity. So despite the logic being the less you do the better it is, you do more because of the instant gratification, and roll back the millions of years in evolution.

    Anyway point being I like doing both, and cutting out PMO makes it easier to stick to not using mj and it shows me how easy it is to at least be able to withstand instant gratification )for PMO(in certain areas of my life that this would carry over is self control in other areas since the principal is exactly the same. If you can withstand this instant gratification and patiently wait it out not only will the rewards be greater but you will have grown in the process.

    IMO it's not about excluding the 'vices' from your life, but using them to practice self control and by knowing what you're missing by foregoing you're training your patience muscle, growing your frontal cortex and you get a more intense experience with much less

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  • Probing for ecstasy

    After reading the Njoy reviews I was anxiously waiting for it to arrive, really excited about some of the claims made. When it did I quickly lubed up and tried the smaller end first, it was ok nothing special. Then I tried the bigger side. Being new to this device it took a long time to get it in, at times I was gasping from the effort and it really felt when it was nearly in that I was going to rip my asshole open with it. Then I finally got it in and I was a little disappointed. I expected everything from 10 x pleasure than with the Aneros to male squirting.
    All I got from the few hours I was using it however was a need to be truly satisfied, I realised even then I was on the cusp of something but I couldn't quite get the release.
    Hence I do what I always do when I want to experience a Super O or an otherwise mindblowing orgasm, I bought some mj.
    First I inserted the Eupho, got some decent orgasms, but nothing really out of the ordinary in my years of Aneros use, if anything it was quite a tame session... until I brought out the Njoy box.
    The second time it was easier sliding the bigger side in, the third time was even easier..I just bend over and squat down on it then it just slides in.
    Anyway, before I used the mj I didn't properly understand how to use the wand, perhaps I was overthinking it or I was using it in the same way I'd use the Aneros. With mj however it's like you instinctively know how to use it to get best results, namely as a probe. Yes I'd read that's how it was categorized but I hadn't realized how apt that description was. Also some of the reviewers were saying how heavy it was, which to me showed the didn't know how to use it, a red herring when I first started using it, but things became completely clear with mj. It's not heavy, it's a probe that you guide thru your anal channel using your fingers while the ball on the outside stimulates the outer perineum. So unlike the Aneros your manually guiding it to all the pleasure points along your anal cavity and then, like with the Aneros, you hold it on a pleasure spot and intensify it by stimulating it. And while your doing this you can use the outside ball to stimulate your outerprostate, i.e. perineum
    IMO this very simple design, that could have easily been around in Egyptian/Roman times is the future of anal/prostate/g-spot stimulation. No problems with it being the wrong size or the p-tab sore on sweet spot etc. There's nothing high tec about it but it more possibilities than you can imagine
    I don't think I could use it as often as the Aneros though, it really takes a lot out of you and it's really going to make you scream with pleasure

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A anal sphincter

The ring of muscles surrounding the anus. There are two rings, the outer and the inner. The outer is under voluntary control. The inner is not (it is controlled by the autonomic nervous system but can be trained to relax therapeutically with biofeedback). To identify this muscle, squeeze your anus as though you are holding back gas. This is the muscle that primarily drives the motion of the Aneros.

B Benign Prostate Hyperplasia

Or BPH. A non-cancerous enlarging of the prostate common in middle aged and older men, often causing urinary symptoms. BPH is one of the prostate ailments that the Aneros was originally developed to help treat. (from the wiki)


see Benign Prostate Hyperplasia

H hands-free

The patented design of our massagers allows them to be used completely – hands-free. This is an advantage over other prostate massagers. It allows an Aneros massager to be used in any position the user wants. More importantly, it frees the user to focus solely on the sensations instead of making a conscious effort to manually manipulate the massager. This subtle freedom is important for bringing the mind and body together during a session, which by many experience users is considered a required technique to master in order to achieve a Super-O.

J journey to the Super-O

Aneros massagers can be enjoyed in many different ways – to enhance a strength and pleasure of penile orgasms during partnered or solo sex, or solely for the pleasures derived from prostate orgasms. The ultimate experience for the route is the Super-O. The practice and understanding of how an Aneros massager, the body, and mind play off of one another to eventually achieve a Super-O is now commonly referred to as the “Journey to the Super-O” by our community members. For some men, this learning period is short in duration. For others, it can take quite some time. There are some key milestones on this journey – they can be viewed

K Kundalini Tab

Also known as the K-Tab.  Curves upwards to rest above the anus between the buttocks to pressure on an acupressure spot there. Named after the yoga concept that there is a serpent of power located at the base of the body’s trunk. The K-Tab and the arm that it extends from has taken the place of the handle seen in other Aneros models. (adapted from the wiki)

P PC muscle

The pubococcygeus muscle, one of a number of muscles in the pelvic floor. It is a hammock-like muscle, found in both sexes, that stretches from the pubic bone to the coccyx (tail bone) forming the floor of the pelvic cavity and supporting the pelvic organs. The PC muscle is largely involved in sexual response and contracting during orgasm. It is believed that strengthening leads to longer, more powerful orgasms. (from the wiki)

pelvic floor

The set of muscles that span the area beneath the pelvis, supporting the pelvic organs. (from the wiki)


The area between the scrotum and anus. The perineum provides external access to the prostate and a pudendal nerve acupressure spot.

perineum tab

On Aneros devices, the front arm which curves upward to press on the perineum during an Aneros session.   This actions prevents external prostate stimulation.  It also acts as a fulcrum against which the device can pivot to perform the internal prostate stimulation.


Aneros massagers are made from 3 different types of plastic. All are FDA approved and medical-grade, non-porous, and each has the right density for the right weight and balance for that particular model.


Inflammation of the prostate. Although there are many suspected causes, (bacterial infection, auto-immune response and neuromuscular tension), prostatitis remains an intractable disease which is often times unresponsive to traditional forms of treatment. Before the advent of antibiotics prostate massage was the first line form of treatment. In recent years with many people turning to holistic and homeopathic forms of medicine, prostate massage has been enjoying resurgence. (from the wiki)


Prostate specific antigen. A chemical produced in the prostate and measured in the blood as an indication of cellular activity in the prostate. Abnormally high levels of PSA may indicate health concerns such as inflammation or cancer. The PSA measurement may be elevated by ejaculation, and any form of anal play, including the Aneros. Ask your doctor for a recommended period of abstention prior to taking this test (the Aneros manufacturer suggests a few days to a week). (from the wiki)

S silicone

We call our silicone “Velvet Touch” for its luxurious, matte finish which is designed to hold lubricant. Silicone is used in our Syn models as well as the Vice and deVice.


An abbreviation of Super orgasm. An overwhelmingly strong non-ejaculatory orgasmic event. Orgasms that have no refractory period allowing them to be repeated multiple times.  Though different for each man, the Super-O is considered to be the ultimate pleasure a man can achieve.

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