Ecstatic Energies and the Art of Living

  • Eros and the Tale of the Phantom Tail

    A couple of months ago, having really explored the many orgasmic possibilities of the pelvic basin in the joyous soft penis sex adventures to date, I felt something else "present" down there. Doing the varied massages, consciousness in and following the orgasmic and related sensations through all these organs, something like a ghost of a feeling , as yet undefined, kept appearing and disappearing.

    The area on my lower back around the sacrum, and below around the coccyx bones, and the musculature/connective-tissues on either side of the groin/hips/lower abdomen are all involved when this happens. Then I saw an early pre-release trailer of Avatar, and it hit me. And I recalled both reading about and seeing documentaries about phantom limb consciousness; the muscle control or twitching and the pain amputee patients can experience, and its reverse, the powerful feelings some people experience that a particular limb, often a leg, does not belong on their body.

    Was it possible that what I was sensing during wonderful orgasmic/energetic explorations and powerful orgasmic experiences in my pelvic basin, was the phantom of my long lost tail???!!! So, I began testing and mentally conjured up the sense of the tail being there and the moves with all the tissues down there as if I was moving it. The strongest and most long lasting sensations came from imaging pulling my tail inward and upward toward the front, between my legs.

    That engaged the sacrum/coccyx, the front lower abdomen and the other connective tissues, producing a deep stimulative/arousal effect. This has proven to be an energies starter/pump that can produce strong p-waves that grow into substantial energies in the Chi/Qi range with a great Orgasmic/Jing harmonic!!!

    If you want to explore this possibility, I would say avoid trying to move particular muscles, relax the area, and then just feel the sense of making the tail move through space and see how that feels in all of your lower pelvic area and up your lower back and beyond. I have had some great energetic orgasmic results, more in the calm seas, still-body, butt lasting and full body resonant energies flows and the tingling bliss and music that goes with that orgasmic range.

    Mrs, a and I saw Avatar New Year's Sunday afternoon and thoroughly enjoyed it. I'm going to see what results she gets and introduce this idea to her soon too!

    Let me know if this works at all for you!

    all the best energetic sensation explorations all


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  • Joy of Soft Penis Sex Part 6: Solo & Partner Soft: Reprise of the earlier Male Clitoris Massage

    In an earlier blog post here, Great Maintenance Orgasms, I mentioned and described the Male Clitoris Massage, the original exploration of the fully retracted penis, prior to the self-retracting, using a manual retraction technique.

    This is from an earlier introductory post in a thread of mine of mine "Full Penis Retraction for External Prostate Massage":

    >>> I occasionally practice full retraction of my penis and fold the bunched up shaft skin at the surface to help restrain my penis from its natural tendency to be stimulated by this and return semi-erect. I lightly carress this folded, now very labial skin, applying a gentle pressure. The subtle movement is a fabulous massage of my prostate! Very slight engorgement of the penis in there just adds "fullness" and a bit more pressure at the prostate.

    Makes one reflect on a key fact of our genital anatomy; that our penises are semi-autonomous double-ender "flesh-dildoes" that are perpetually making love to their host.

    We are the only species with a non-retracting penis, which has produced myriad cultural responses as to what to do with the thing when not in use! But it still is an inheritance from our penis-retracting ancestors and it can be manually retracted and so used occasionally as yet another enhancement to this aneros practice. <<<

    That thread then goes into more anatomical detail and the reports by several other guys of their successes with this technique.

    The Male Clitoris Massage uses [B]the retracted flaccid penis as the piston to massage the prostate from above[/B], particularly butt not exclusively, during an aneros session. Enhanced orgasmic results are the great benefit of this added tool implementation.

    Here is the url for a Search for "Male AND Clitoris AND Massage" posts by "artform" which gives you five earlier threads three of which really go into this subject (copy this and paste it into your aneros search box:

    Others too have discovered this and for a brief time a member named "clitboy" posted and blogged here(again you have to copy and paste into your aneros search box):

    Here is a post from Wuerstchen currently in my thread Full Penis Retraction: Unique Aneros Session Galactic Orgasm.

    >>> Artform, I have just caught up with this thread, and with your blog on the joys of the soft penis. You are truly the guru of soft-penis pleasures! I especially enjoyed the entry on the "mangina." It so happens I have been enjoying my own mangina for years now, and assumed I was alone. My preferred means of solo orgasm is the nipple and breast orgasm, to which I have dedicated years of experimentation and a group on Yahoo. But for variety I have in recent years occasionally used a technique in which I finger my "mangina" while working one of my nipples with my free hand. This produces earth-moving orgasms--shattering orgasms! My theory is that as the retracted penis hardens inside its "missile silo," as you so evocatively call it, it presses against the prostate. The intensity of the orgasm is almost frightening.

    Anyway I have posted the link to your "mangina" entry in my group and have already had some enthusiastic responses.
    Wuerstchen <<<

    Thanks W! I agree with your descriptions too! I should not have said that the Galactic Orgasm was unique. I have been there again! It is replicable. Hurray!!! As the spongy corpus caverousi shrink they and the penis becomes more uniformly dense and a "little" "harder" and does make a good little piston ;) BTW, I had a fantastic "mangina" session recently with my Progasm Ice inside, and two lubricated fingers working inside my mangina!! :)

    Hope you and your group will post some of your experiences and detailed descriptions here, thanks.

    As ArticWolves always reminds us: Be thankful for what you have got, rather than worrying about what you haven't got. Or words to that effect. Here's to the enormous range of joys available through soft penis sex!!!

    all the best of all possible sexual sensual sensuous male adventuring all


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  • Joy of Soft Penis Sex Part 5: Solo Soft: The Master Organist and The Sultan of BagJazz!

    [B]The Master Organist[/B]

    The benefits of this manoeuvre ( man+oeuvre ["work(s) of an artist!"] ) are many and varied, both in energies management, storage and movement, but also in energies generation, unique dry orgasmic opportunities and various combinations simultaneously.

    [B]Hands on Your Keyboard[/B]

    This unique position is placing your hands palm down on your lower abdomen, with you middle fingers in the groove between your groin and inner thighs, your index fingers on top of the middle fingers. This leaves your thumbs on your lower abdomen along with your likely flaccid penis. Your ring and little fingers rest on your inner thighs.
    Your middle/index fingers' first knuckles or so is over the main ligament connector that bridges from your leg into the pelvic connection near your scrotum. Your middle and index fingers are therefore able to move/massage the sides of your mound containing the inner penis and the testicular retraction canals.
    Your scrotum and balls are on top of the mound, lightly brushed by your briefs or sheets or...

    [B]Energies Management[/B]

    The great thing from an energies point of view is that you can feel and shift the yin chi in the perineum/scrotal-plus area felt with the middle and index finger tips, and the yang chi lower abdomen/pubic-bone area felt by the thumbs. I can even feel high power currents through the vagus and possibly pudendal nerves through the lower abdominal muscle and skin with my thumbs.
    Finally you feel the potential for energies transfer and storage into the legs through the ring and little fingers. I have been able to make those energy transfers effectively. This shifting and balancing of energies is a great advantage when you are feeling highly charged with chi throughout your system. Along with appropriate grounding if necessary, this storage can enable you to hold great energies in reserve.

    Essentially, the Master Organist's hands are the great switches carrying these energies where you sense, then intend, they are best stored, transferred or utilized.

    [B]The Cremasters Bicycle Generator[/B]

    So, in addition to being able to shift and store energies, this position allows for exceptional energies generation, with or without your aneros in. I began VERY slowly and delicately making gentle circular motions with my middle and index fingers on the sides of the inner penis sheath skin just below my scrotum, and was getting responses from the testicular canal tissues and contents: the cremaster muscles and spermatic cords! These lightest tugs were connecting with the testicles and their root tissues both!
    Brings to mind those ancient Polynesian navigators on long ocean voyages relying on their testicles detecting the patterns subtle waves and current pulsing motions of reflected waves off distant island shores to guide their way safely to their intended destination! Oh man!

    This set off my K-spot between the anus and coccyx, then my prostate, then everybody else down there was awake and started pulsating. Fabulous feelings mounting and energies pumping and flowing into the abs, peri, and legs. Building building...
    There are some unique orgasmic features in the pelvic basin orgasms I have during full penis retraction, and some of these have been learned and shared or were somehow invoked during this process.
    Balls up top, slowly rolling around up there DELIGHTFULLY and causing the scrotum topside skin to brush lightly but highly stimulatingly against my briefs hovering just above. Through my hands I can direct these energies into abdomen, perineum or legs.

    You asked about the penis! All this massaging has the sides of my inner penis tingling and little fireworks cracking there, WITHOUT stimulating an erection. My thumbs do respond to this by testing things by pressing on the corona of the sides of the glans firmly inward. Shots fire from there back into the prostate and the music escalates again. The chamber orchestra is in full pulsating crescendo...

    [B]The Master Organist's Bass Pedals Orgasm[/B]

    Lots of energies delighting and then moving into storage. Butt the building, building of all this continues until two powerful great cannonades of fireworks in both feet!!, and all up my legs and throughout the pelvic basin in a fantastic new (for me) form of lower half simultaneous multiple orgasms of Super-O proportions repeating and repeating... That full tilt show lasted more than half an hour, and then slowly subsided while continuing to be just as entertaining.

    [B]All Together Now![/B]

    What I like is being able to generate, move and store all these energies by using the various fingers like playing a keyboard. To be able to generate major energies gently using two pairs of these fingers too is a huge and integrative opportunity. And then, if you like, pelvic basin, legs and feet orgasming like THAT!! This integrated energies work is astounding, IMHO! I was fully refreshed, packed with energy and ready to go when I did respond to the alarm clock 2 hours through all this. And I have been able to repeat this with it all starting up much more readily.

    Thus The Master Organist!

    What's next? Who knows yet? I'm still playing and integrating all five parts to date! :)

    all the best orgasmic expeditions all


    PS. [B]The Sultan of BagJazz[/B]

    As I reported earlier, I have been having these tingling pulsing sensations in the underside and sides of my scrotum when I have these higher energies levels, and mrs. a and I have taken to calling it bagjazz. She has a number of wonderful techniques to help transform it, cold fingers being particularly exciting part of some techniques!!! It is also this condition which call upon the Master Organist as an alternative resolution. On these other hands, they can also call up a suite of ecstatic music and orgasmic effects that I now refer to as "The Sultan of BagJazz"!

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  • Joy of Soft Penis Sex Part 4: Solo Soft or with Partner – Are you ready to play your Mangina?

    Enjoying the unique special orgasmic feelings of aneros sessions with voluntary and sustained Full Penis Retraction, as well as the great added bounce of sessions using the Male Clitoris Massage technique described too in earlier posts here and by others as well in threads in the Forum, I felt it worthwhile exploring our pliable male anatomy even a little further.

    As we know from experience, shaft skin is separate from the actual penis shaft and moves independently, below the fixed attachment points at the glans and at the base of the visible part of the penis merging with the lower abdomen/scrotal skin. So, when the penis is full retracted that shaft skin usually partly retracts too and the rest piles up at the opening into the internal penis chamber.

    What happens if you gently finger your way into the pile of shaft skin and take it with your finger down into the internal penis "missile silo"? How far do you get in? Does it produce any positive feelings? What all can you contact down in there? This may be old hat for some or many, but new to me.

    One morning on a solo family business trip, I awoke in my lodging room at 4:30 and felt the significant energies buzz that has been part of my life now for several months.

    (More about that next post. For now, mrs. a and I refer to this as "bagjazz" because it is concentrated in the scrotum skin at the back and sides where it meets the perineum. And she has wonderful uses and relief techniques we've identified!!! ;))

    Partly I was curious about those energies and their distribution within as I lay there in the dark and in an unfamiliar bed at about 4:30 am. I carry my Eupho with me and decided to insert and see what might happen generally A bit of saliva on Eupho and the autolubing my anal glands provide. Full penis retraction soon followed. My finger idly started gently finding its way through the layers of shaft skin and probing into the penis chamber a little.

    No discomfort. Mildly pleasant sensations, but without stimulating the penis toward erection. Finger in further, whole first knuckle in. Lovely sensations in the testicle tubes and their creamaster muscles and the vas etc.! Just by moving gently toward each in turn. How far in can I go???! Without any strain or stretch feeling I was now in two full knuckles inside and I have sensations like a great contact and stim of my P-spot, as trained by Aneros P-tabs!!!

    I have longer than average fingers so two knuckles in is a good 2 & 1/2 inches. Push to the perineum and its likely 3" at least. In addition this was all without any lube

    Similarly, some nice reactions in the perineum skin and scrotal skin that I can caress here through the shaft skin from the inside!! Finger rotated inward and I am pushing gently on the side of the lower penis bulb that never sees the light of day, but is the tissue one is pressing through with the P-tab to massage/press the prostate with the other side of the penis bulb and its chamber wall tissues. SO, I can actually massage my prostate as much or more than the P-tab, even more closely and delicately as I choose!!!

    I'm floating with all these again unique variations and intensifications of tactile and orgasmic sensations and energies amplifiying and floating joys!!! Eupho is gently massaging and doing its enticing variations too, often in response to my finger experiments with the different tissue touch points. Even my penis, at the glans, and through the light compression along the side, was enegized and transmitting joyful energies of a completely non-ejac/non-erecting type as part of this great underground party!!!

    The great pleasures were so enveloping that I really lost track of how they were being produced. My prostate felt like it was in a mosh pit surrounded rather than slow dancing with one partner. Butt, not overly pressured or uncomfortable in any way. Singing and buzzing and electrifying as much or more than ever during a great Eupho session.

    Suddenly it was 6:30 am and time to get up and get ready for the day ahead! I get up but I really don't want these sensations to stop until absolutely necessary. I walk into the bathroom, still floating, and start a bath running and then actually look in the mirror over the sink and am startled by the image of this older man (we all feel younger inside) with his hand and end of one finger that has disappeared into his lower abdomen where his penis should be!!!

    Science tells us that we males and females all start with the same genital tissues as our foetal bodies develop and differentiate. How pliant the male reconstruction of these tissues is! To all appearances it looks like a woman massaging her G-spot with a finger mostly into her vagina in that mirror. But I don't feel like that at all. I feel like a man ecstatic. A man even more closely connected to his whole lower pelvic basin and all its wonders and delights!!!

    So it must be a Man-gina!. A mangina then, another permutation of male genital anatomy, providing another Penis-NOT! access to ecstasies of the male genital orchestra. As one of the Aneros T-shirts says: "Have Courage!" Are you man enough to explore your mangina?! :)

    Anyone else tried any/all of this? What sensations and effect?

    Of course, there is no reason not to have your partner's finger also explore and gently articulate all the pleasures and ecstatic possibilities of your mangina. Mrs. a and I will have comments soon on this new variation of our Wedding Band sex position.

    Any couples of any orientation tried this? What results for you?

    all the joyous plug-in pleasure potentials and ecstatics all


    NEXT: back outside and the triumph of the Master Organist!

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  • Joy of Soft Penis Sex Part 3: Solo Soft – The Wheel of the Galaxy – Full Penis Retraction

    Following an early morning Quickie session recently, like the one described in Part 2, mrs. a had to get up and leave for an appointment. The difference this time was using my Helix instead of mrs. a's finger. We had begun this session with mrs. a lubing my anus/rectum and my Helix and inserting it lovingly into me. The Helix had been unusually quite mobile and massaged me to Super-Os and the great Super-T climax with her.

    She climbed out over the colourful landscape d'amour we created earlier that morning with our recently acquired Liberator Shapes. I had long had the hunch that they might be the answer to the muscle pain and cramping that I get in too many desirable positions for sex. And was that hunch correct!! The Wedge and the Ramp and Whirls allow us now to do many things now for as long as we want, things that I previously could only sustain for a couple of minutes. This Quickie had included an extended time of cunnilingus by me comfortably and artfully bringing her to repeated full body, highly vocal, opening orgasms. Then into penis/G-spot and all the energetic orgasmic variations...

    Filled with circulating energies and the ecstasies already, she cleaned, dressed and prepared for her appointment. I was also filled and motivated to continue as a solo session with the Helix. I had positioned myself on the Ramp with the base of my spine and butt on the Wedge, curving my back and supporting it comfortably such that my legs and feet were in the air above me, and my butt fully, roundly projecting out over our bed, and the Helix subtly, yet visibly, moving as it continued to massage me well and the energies kept right on pumping and flying around inside my body. Mrs. a watched for a moment with a smile as the Helix pumped and then turned, saying good-bye, throwing me a kiss, and left for her meeting.

    Placing my hands up on my ankles, I began to feel an energies loop through each arm. My feet were resting sole to sole together in mid-air and I had had an energies loop quite active through my legs and lower abdomen complex since first assuming this position, which I later called The Wheel of the Universe during a KSMO Chat soon after this event (revised down to Galaxy!). The energies through the arms and legs both surging back down and through the lower abdomen/prostate and my prostate hypnotized by the gentle caresses of the self-propelled Helix, then energies levels hit "Above and Beyond" levels and I was through-the-body travelling around the galaxy.

    When, after about an hour, my mind refocused into my body, I noticed something remarkable. My penis had disappeared!!! It had completely voluntarily fully retracted into my body, into the sheath that the whole length of it occupies, the normally visible and the anchoring root or bulb that we never see. No panic! Just that I hadn't seen that spontaneously happen since childhood.

    I also noticed that I was building a new and different kind of complexly layered orgasmic energies unfolding in my abdomen, with radiation out into my whole body. Related to the boost one gets from the Male Clitoris Massage technique during an aneros session, this was even more pronounced and different, perhaps because of no massage and no holding the penis in retracted position with fingers as in MCM.

    This was more like magic grains of vibrating, warm, light emitting sand appearing, different colours and frequencies in each orgasmic organ and the tissues and spaces between. Some felt hotter than a newly forming sun, yet painless. Their slow orbits in spiralling arms and the cycling of the whole collection kept also opening like blossoms and shifted me from occasional deep vocalizations to silent awe-struck wonder at the energetic power and ecstasies. The closest thing I can relate this to is the milder versions without the movement of the best of the MCM assisted orgasmic chains, and the Mitochondrial Orgasms.

    Hallelujah!!! Hallelujah!!! Hallelujah!!!

    When I settled back on earth and stood up my penis emerged just far enough that it had claimed a full new foreskin by adhering much of the shaft skin to the glans, the head of the penis. I was thrilled!! I have long considered some form of foreskin restoration having been cut like so many as an infant. When I sat down the whole newly restored assemblage fully retracted, leaving only a small volcanic cone of crumpled shaft skin with a little circular open centre, where deep within, one could see the urethral slit opening at the tip of the voluntarily fully retracted penis. Can soft penis sex/energetics get much smaller, ecstatically productive, and curiouser than this?

    Bigguy recently also reported experiencing voluntary spontaneous full penis retraction during an aneros session. Anyone else?


    NEXT: Are you ready and up for the Mangina?

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  • The Joyous Benefits and Art of Soft (and Semi-Soft) Penis Sex with your Female Partner: Part 2

    [B]The Inflation Cycles[/B]

    Over time, Mrs. a and I found that we [B]really enjoy[/B] taking the [B]M/F Energies Balancing[/B] experience further and in a counter-intuitive direction. As we began to experience the energies exchanges more clearly and quickly, we also felt my flaccid penis taking that stimulus back to an ejaculatory circuit, or more frequently, a mixed circuits response and starting to erect, at least to semi-soft or slightly firmer state, what I have earlier here described as the "leatherman".

    As this happens we do some "old fashioned" higher speed humping, until we have teased up anticipatory pleasures and more aroused excitement. This too does not take as long as it used to. Sounds a bit like premature ejac about to go off, yet Mrs. a is also getting this more rapid buildup. There is even a hint of edging to it sometimes. Very delightful for both!!

    Right about then my body says: "Hold it!" (in every sense)! And wanting a great chain of Super-Os before anything ending in ejac, and wanting the mounting and distracting pains from earlier injuries to ease off, and having the ED timer run out of buzz; my penis deflates and we both are thrilled!

    Why on earth do inconstant come and go, come and go..., inflations/erections/deflations/flaccid cycles thrill both the male and the female?? Because the energies flow more and more strongly in each following still bodies deflationary period with each voluntary genital muscles twitch and without them too. The aching muscles get to relax and rest, even briefly. There is no ED performance anxiety; we just go with its effects when they are part of this cycle. and we both love the humping arousal builds as much as the quiet energies exchanges, and the highly varied cycles of mindsets and expectations; the mixed mental orgasmic game!!...!!...!!...

    Over time we have also found that these cycles work astoundingly well, even as intuitively we (and my penis) have shortened the frequency of the cycle as the amplitude of the pleasures has increased with experiences!! This is now our favourite and most anticipated form of Quickie session; great raw sex, as well as the ethereal bliss ecstasies, and virtually immediate Day-After butt buzz and continuing effects.

    With the cycles now lasting 3 to 7 minutes, after five to seven cycles or more...(whatever comes naturally with no timing or thinking about it)... my body is taking longer to unknot and be able to relax into the energies. We rest a little longer, caressing. Mrs. a's caressing focuses in toward my anus. I reach out and get a palm shot of lubricant on one hand where she then lubes her fingers, and I smooth the remainder from my hand into my anus/rectum.

    Mrs. a begins gently massaging my prostate. All the signals from our three plus hours of slow mutual prostate sessions are triggered again as well as the musical sense that the grand finale build-ups from the earlier cycles and any edgings are ramping up too. Leatherman is gradually taking shape as I have again begun active humping, slowly at first, butt gaining momentum.

    The previous cycles have had great P-waves, mini-Os, and later bigger dry-Os, butt this is now building, unveiling, and giving forth ecstatic blossoms and muscular Super-Os in increasingly rapid (re)build/release impulses!! If we were setting this to music, it would be the final movement of Beethoven's Ninth Symphony: The Ode to Joy!! Build! Build!... Pause... Build! Build! Build!! Flow!! Flow!! Pause!!... Build!! Build!! Build!! Build!! Flow!! Flow!! Build!!... Explode!! FLOWS and FLOWS and Mini Explosions and deep body gutturaalll vocalizations of earth energies and cosmic energies onward and outward...

    Stay together. Her body savours and sips my/our fluids. Up into and back through my again flaccid penis my body savours and sips her/our fluids as in reproductive sex, and yet the energies are Flowing, Flowing too and their ecstasies over top all else as deep relaxation sets in throughout, and bliss joy energies tingle all mingled body/mind together.

    Talk about having your cake and eating it too!! For us, the [B]Inflation Cycles[/B] enable this partially disabled geezer and his life partner to recall and again enjoy the "old" while thrilling to the "new" all at once: [B]memories[/B] and newly expanding [B]imagination[/B] (imaging of unspeakable realities) merging in the hyper-richness of all energies integrated orgasmic ecstasies.

    Thank you Aneros!! Thank you KSMO!! Thank you both wonderful communities!! Thank you All!!

    all rhythmic pressurizations and pulsations of prodigious pleasurizations returning all


    Next episode: Solo Soft Reflections

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  • The Joyous Benefits and Art of Soft (and Semi-Soft) Penis Sex with your Female Partner: Part 1

    This topic has come up, so to speak, both here and at KSMO in threads and chats repeatedly over the last few months. The most notable and significant response for me is the unanimous, again to date it has been unanimous, and highly enthusiastic comments by women about their preference for a man who can be a skilful lover in more ways than the hard driving pylon, ejac and doze, apparently regardless of whatever clever and satisfying conventional foreplay leads up to the classic.

    The following is Part 1 of a range of techniques that Mrs. a, my dear wife, and I have responded to and embraced enthusiastically as our "mutual prostates journey together" has developed and grown so radically, so deeply lovingly and mutually energizing beyond any expectations, and so out of this world experientially.

    [B]Male/Female/Yin/Yang Energies Balancing Intercourse[/B]

    After mutual caressing, slowly and gently, with a bit of finger assist if necessary, enter your partner's vagina with your flaccid penis. Both deeply relaxing, stay still and feel the contact and sense of connection. [B]Do not thrust. Do not move, even gently. Stay still.[/B] Do not thrust. You and your partner may begin to sense micro-"electricity" moving in each direction between you, through you genitals. This may take considerable time and repeated attempts before you start to perceive this mutual energy flow.

    This is you receiving female/yin energies and your partner receiving male energies, until your systems achieve an energies balance, which you will each probably feel as subtly but deeply, and peacefully, invigorating.

    Mrs. a and I just intuitively began doing this and found the benefits something we wanted to revisit regularly. That happened to increase our sensitivity to these energies and increase our ability to generate them at will at times.

    Then we found the Dr. Rudolf von Urban M. D.'s theory and method of [B]Bio-Electric Sex[/B] as one of many techniques set out in the David and Helen Ramsdale book [B]Sexual Energy Ecstasy[/B]. His recommendation is doing the above for about 30 minutes, then having about 30 minutes of active thrusting/caressing of varied intensities [B]without ejaculation[/B]. If ejaculation does occur, then stay linked together for a further 30 minutes.

    We find the time can vary as experience with the technique grows, and we never actually timed a session rigourously. The benefits for both partners and the shared sense of vitality are wonderful.

    Next: Part Two: Inflation Cycles.

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  • Circulating Energies with Your Partner without Including Genital Contact

    A couple of days ago, mrs. a and I awoke in the early morning and were feeling sensual and were caressing... general body caressing...

    I could feel my energies flowing with erotic overtones but instead brought my left foot up under the ball of one of mrs. a's feet. I felt some energy flow there and asked if she did too. Yes. So I slid my hand down to enable me to touch one of her finger tips with one of mine. It just started... We were now circulating the energies mutually in loops fingers to toes through our bodies!!!

    No muscle spasms, but the gentlest of Calm Seas-Os floating bliss while these energies coursed through us and we shared these amazing effects. We both felt energized during and for much of the day following.

    If I had to say, I would say we were mostly feeling the effects ascribed to Chi, the Life Force, but there were clearly echoes/elements of Jing and Shen there too...

    Doing more research on this and will report back...

    Back again! July 14/09

    I just added the following post to a thread in the KSMO Complementary Practices Forum section on the subject of John Gregorek's CHAKRAS App for the IPhone and IPod Touch:

    This wonderful iPhone App has been significantly upgraded recently. I highly recommend the App and the upgrade. This morning mrs. a and I did as we do on occasion and listened through the upward three tones cascade I described in a post above, in bed together after waking. As always we get wonderful "clearing" sensations in lungs, throat, sinuses, and less obvious areas, strong beautiful blossoms of energies and occasional outright fireworks here and there too

    There is a sense too of channels clearing/opening wider, and although we have been able to open to mutual energy looping previously in other circumstances, this morning we easily fell into glorious mutual energy looping (mutual microcosmic orbiting in Taoist terms). We are both still energized as we proceed with all the outside world business and activities. Better than all the caffeine in the world and entirely different qualities; a spiritual/physical multiversal integration, not some outside chemical high!

    all the most ecstatic energetics all

    as we rewire
    we are all reconnected

    Gregorek's website Publications page is:

    Hey newbie2009, thanks for your comment. I have added a detailed description that may help with your problem with this in my comment below.

    Still researching and will report again later...

    all the best channels opening and energies flowing all


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  • Sex and Death II: More Orgasms, Healthier Males!

    With ejaculation being called by the French; "The Little Death" (Le Petite Mort), here is a refreshing bit of science from the Brits, via PubMed/About (with thanks):

    Sex and death: are they related? Findings from the Caerphilly Cohort Study.

    Davey Smith G, Frankel S, Yarnell J.
    Department of Social Medicine, University of Bristol.
    OBJECTIVE: To examine the relation between frequency of orgasm and mortality. STUDY DESIGN: Cohort study with a 10 year follow up. SETTING: The town of Caerphilly, South Wales, and five adjacent villages. SUBJECTS: 918 men aged 45-59 at time of recruitment between 1979 and 1983. MAIN OUTCOME MEASURES: All deaths and deaths from coronary heart disease. RESULTS: Mortality risk was 50% lower in the group with high orgasmic frequency than in the group with low orgasmic frequency, with evidence of a dose-response relation across the groups. Age adjusted odds ratio for all cause mortality was 2.0 for the group with low frequency of orgasm (95% confidence interval 1.1 to 3.5, test for trend P = 0.02). With adjustment for risk factors this became 1.9 (1.0 to 3.4, test for trend P = 0.04). Death from coronary heart disease and from other causes showed similar associations with frequency of orgasm, although the gradient was most marked for deaths from coronary heart disease. Analysed in terms of actual frequency of orgasm, the odds ratio for total mortality associated with an increase in 100 orgasms per year was 0.64 (0.44 to 0.95). CONCLUSION: Sexual activity seems to have a protective effect on men's health.

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  • Muscle Memory and Fantasy/Imagery as Orgasmic Triggers

    These are excepts from a current thread in which Pan and I discuss these alternate methods based on his first post in Sky_Walker's thread The Five Minutes leading up to a Super-O at

    >>>artform wrote: I have found both the Fantasy method and what I have called the Muscle Memory method to be very useful additional arrows in the quiver. But Muscle Memory may be limited to those experienced with yoga or at least successful inner body visualization: being able to mentally connect with a specific body element, isolate and activate it in an unusual way. For example focusing on a wound, visible or internal and actually being able to accelerate its healing.

    I used my MGX, when I had temporarily reached a plateau before any Aneros-induced Super-O, and practised having my prostate and its rectal muscle wall cover reach out to contact the tip of the MGX and have them caress it. I called it "polishing the knob". Mine does this hungrily for mrs. a's finger anytime!

    Perhaps that was the key, butt it worked with the Aneros and I could then replicate that sensation anytime at will without the Aneros and launch the energies, the Butt Buzz and P-waves, mini-Os and dry-Os and beyond... anytime. The muscles there actually flex gently when I "recall" that memory and the physical stimulus prostate fuse is ignited that easily. Perhaps it's just the trick of an adept with an unusual background. Or, this might be useful for others needing to "do something", just as the Fantasy Method has wide appeal and application.<<<

    >>>artform wrote: It is fascinating that your imagery is so ejaculation focused when differentiating orgasmic response from ejaculation response is a crucial step in both Aneros and KSMO.<<<

    >>>Pan wrote: Indeed, I can see how it makes for a bit of a paradox! LOL.

    I suppose a little more explanation is in order here. When describing the Fantasy Method, I recommend focusing on the sensations of ejaculatory orgasm for a couple reasons:

    First - the process building up to and including ejaculation, involves all of the same nerves, muscles, etc associated with the Super-O, and most importantly the prostate. And since the body doesn't know the difference between an imagined ejaculation and a real one, vividly fantasizing about it, stimulates all of those areas automatically (often much more so than contractions alone). This stimulation leads to an increase in pleasurable awareness of the prostate. And since the Aneros is already gently massaging that area (even without any contractions), once a certain "critical mass" of sensation is achieved in that area, the body naturally responds to the presence of the Aneros with the same automatic, involuntary contractions associated with both ejaculation and the Super-O. This is the crossroads where these two, seemingly opposite physiological responses intersect. The spontaneous orgasmic contractions are essentially the same. However without physical penile stimulation and/or erection, the body simply defaults to the Super-O (and all of the wonderful pleasures that come with it!).

    Second - I find that the Fantasy Method works best by drawing on and amplifying sense memories from one's previous orgasmic experiences. Since I've only discussed this method with new practitioners thus far, I try to keep the instructions within their current realm of orgasmic experience, which is most likely limited to ejaculation. It's a sensation that all men can associate with, so in my opinion, it's the best place to start.

    Of course, as one's repertoire expands, so does one's options until they are only as limited as one's imagination.

    Personally, I use the Fantasy Method as a powerful form of self-hypnosis to help enhance and expand everything from full-body orgasms and kundalini awakenings, to emotional and spiritual growth. But it all started as an experiment to see what would happen if I focused purely on the sensations of continual ejaculatory orgasm without actually doing anything physical. The result was my first fantasy-generated Super-O.<<<

    >>>artform wrote: Agreed! And I too think that there is strong self-hypnosis here. At summer camp in my early teens I was found to be a good hypnosis/self-hypnosis participant, particularly in pain control. Soon after that I took up my early practice of yoga, again with pain control as part of the motivation and early successes. <<<

    >>>artform wrote: So, once having accomplished the rewiring of the differentiation, as you have, using the imagery of ejaculation does not take you back into the ejaculation circuitry, I assume!?!

    >>>Pan wrote: As a matter of fact, after a few years, it did eventually lead me to experience some involuntary ejaculations (and also what I call "streaming ejaculations," where the semen pours out slowly in one continuous stream), during my Aneros sessions. Eventually, I found myself so "in tune" with my ejaculatory process that I could in fact, ejaculate in as little as a couple minutes, even without the Aneros or any physical stimulation at all. And it's an ability that has stayed with me ever since.

    For awhile, I was indeed slightly concerned that I might have taken the re-wiring process a little too far. But within a few months, I found myself settling into a very comfortable balance between wet and dry orgasms, where both seemed equally more accessible to me than before.

    In terms of multiple, dry, KSMO-style orgasms and/or Super-O's, I can still enjoy them for hours during sex, masturbation, or Aneros sessions without feeling any urge to ejaculate, just like before. I still average about one voluntary ejaculation per week or less, and almost never ejaculate involuntarily, as has been the case for the past 7 years or so. If anything, I feel that through this process I have simply gained a whole new area to explore in terms of how I choose to ejaculate. And I must admit, as time goes by, I find ejaculating purely through fantasy far more pleasurable than any other method, except of course, while making love to my wife.

    Currently, on the days that I do choose to ejaculate, I am learning to hover at the Point of No Return for long periods of time, purely through fantasy, without the Aneros or any form of physical stimulation. It's basically a form of mental "edging," that oddly enough seems to be helping me expand my non-ejaculatory orgasmic capacity even more. I've never seen this particular practice discussed anywhere, so if anyone else is doing it, I'd love to compare notes!<<<

    >>>artform wrote: Nor have I. In my youth I never had a "wet dream" or any "nocturnal emissions". Since taking up Aneros and KSMO however, I have had evidence in my briefs in the morning on several occasions that this can be a late onset phenomenon. So separating the orgasmic response from the ejaculatory response seems to have also freed up the ejaculatory one too!

    Although I am sensitive to my dreams, I have had no memories associated with these events on waking. Just sitting here typing the body/mind is rummaging around down there to feel just what can be put together to make this work. My hunch is that I have been subconsciously playing in that direction somewhere below one of my favourite liminal perches, hypnagogia. As always you are an inspiration! Another Flow phenomenon on the sensory/sensual horizon...

    Wait a minute! If I was tossing or moving significantly in my sleep, mrs. a would waken and... Perhaps my nocturnal emissions are flows... Who knows... yet <<<

    >>>artform wrote: My imagery is different and secondary...<<<

    >>>Pan wrote: As well it should be! Like I said, as far as the Fantasy Method goes, the focus on ejaculation is just a launching point for those who have yet to experience multiple orgasms or the Super-O. Once that has been achieved, the possibilities are limitless. <<<

    >>>artform wrote: Yes, limitless. I understand the appeal and utility of focusing on the body/mind's established experience of orgasm while withholding any penile stimulus. It too is a form of muscle/nerve memory technique training in that sense. It is a wonderful alternate route to the bigger dry orgasmic responses! I have always had energetic responses to music, other arts and environment experiences. Those energies can be chi (life force) or shen (spiritual), butt they can also be jing (orgasmic) to use the Taoist naming tradition. esfenoides has a current thread Non-erotic orgasms, aneros can be non sexual where the spiritual orgasm thoughts come forward again. I again included your link to the Michael Winn article The Quest for Spiritual Orgasm.

    As we all get to the full spectrum of energies through these practices our whole "being in the world" can be felt as an orgasmic adventure. Long before joining Jack's KSMO group, I loved resonance and feeling sound/music in specific parts of my body. The more pleasure-inducing parts quickly became a priority. I have had a prostate resonant tuning for singing for years. Up, up and away... In a recent KSMO Chat, I mentioned that I had tuned my Key Sound to resonate with my prostate. Jack LOLed. I think that is part of why KSMO worked so soon, so naturally and so powerfully for me.

    I have grown up with a case of synaesthesia, of cross-over sensory inputs and imagery. Music can therefore be visual, tactile and kinaestheic, as well as auditory, all at once. All the senses can trigger and mix easily and fantastically, so I have a repertoire of professional and recreational memories and imaginings that contain energies that can and do concentrate as JING! and away we go!

    We do Chi Walking and other specific Taoist techniques too to gather and concentrate chi and, as Jack says, "calmpost" that energy into the whole body/mind system to go spiritual voyaging and/or high energetic orgasmic adventures with mrs. a!<<<

    hope this may be helpful to some here


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A anal sphincter

The ring of muscles surrounding the anus. There are two rings, the outer and the inner. The outer is under voluntary control. The inner is not (it is controlled by the autonomic nervous system but can be trained to relax therapeutically with biofeedback). To identify this muscle, squeeze your anus as though you are holding back gas. This is the muscle that primarily drives the motion of the Aneros.

B Benign Prostate Hyperplasia

Or BPH. A non-cancerous enlarging of the prostate common in middle aged and older men, often causing urinary symptoms. BPH is one of the prostate ailments that the Aneros was originally developed to help treat. (from the wiki)


see Benign Prostate Hyperplasia

H hands-free

The patented design of our massagers allows them to be used completely – hands-free. This is an advantage over other prostate massagers. It allows an Aneros massager to be used in any position the user wants. More importantly, it frees the user to focus solely on the sensations instead of making a conscious effort to manually manipulate the massager. This subtle freedom is important for bringing the mind and body together during a session, which by many experience users is considered a required technique to master in order to achieve a Super-O.

J journey to the Super-O

Aneros massagers can be enjoyed in many different ways – to enhance a strength and pleasure of penile orgasms during partnered or solo sex, or solely for the pleasures derived from prostate orgasms. The ultimate experience for the route is the Super-O. The practice and understanding of how an Aneros massager, the body, and mind play off of one another to eventually achieve a Super-O is now commonly referred to as the “Journey to the Super-O” by our community members. For some men, this learning period is short in duration. For others, it can take quite some time. There are some key milestones on this journey – they can be viewed

K Kundalini Tab

Also known as the K-Tab.  Curves upwards to rest above the anus between the buttocks to pressure on an acupressure spot there. Named after the yoga concept that there is a serpent of power located at the base of the body’s trunk. The K-Tab and the arm that it extends from has taken the place of the handle seen in other Aneros models. (adapted from the wiki)

P PC muscle

The pubococcygeus muscle, one of a number of muscles in the pelvic floor. It is a hammock-like muscle, found in both sexes, that stretches from the pubic bone to the coccyx (tail bone) forming the floor of the pelvic cavity and supporting the pelvic organs. The PC muscle is largely involved in sexual response and contracting during orgasm. It is believed that strengthening leads to longer, more powerful orgasms. (from the wiki)

pelvic floor

The set of muscles that span the area beneath the pelvis, supporting the pelvic organs. (from the wiki)


The area between the scrotum and anus. The perineum provides external access to the prostate and a pudendal nerve acupressure spot.

perineum tab

On Aneros devices, the front arm which curves upward to press on the perineum during an Aneros session.   This actions prevents external prostate stimulation.  It also acts as a fulcrum against which the device can pivot to perform the internal prostate stimulation.


Aneros massagers are made from 3 different types of plastic. All are FDA approved and medical-grade, non-porous, and each has the right density for the right weight and balance for that particular model.


Inflammation of the prostate. Although there are many suspected causes, (bacterial infection, auto-immune response and neuromuscular tension), prostatitis remains an intractable disease which is often times unresponsive to traditional forms of treatment. Before the advent of antibiotics prostate massage was the first line form of treatment. In recent years with many people turning to holistic and homeopathic forms of medicine, prostate massage has been enjoying resurgence. (from the wiki)


Prostate specific antigen. A chemical produced in the prostate and measured in the blood as an indication of cellular activity in the prostate. Abnormally high levels of PSA may indicate health concerns such as inflammation or cancer. The PSA measurement may be elevated by ejaculation, and any form of anal play, including the Aneros. Ask your doctor for a recommended period of abstention prior to taking this test (the Aneros manufacturer suggests a few days to a week). (from the wiki)

S silicone

We call our silicone “Velvet Touch” for its luxurious, matte finish which is designed to hold lubricant. Silicone is used in our Syn models as well as the Vice and deVice.


An abbreviation of Super orgasm. An overwhelmingly strong non-ejaculatory orgasmic event. Orgasms that have no refractory period allowing them to be repeated multiple times.  Though different for each man, the Super-O is considered to be the ultimate pleasure a man can achieve.

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